Find your pleasure zone with anal beads!

18.08.2008 |

By: Sandra Jović

Using anal beads can be an excellent start or a refreshment of the anal game. Read about what they are, how they work and how to use them...






What are they?

Have you heard of the Japanese wonder – or the Japanese beads, which bring a woman to her orgasm? You can also use them for anal pleasure, but in principle they are meant for vaginal usage and are different to the anal ones we will be describing.

Anal beads are similar to vaginal ones, except that here there are more smaller beads connected by a plastic string.
The beads can be different sizes and made out of various materials: the most common ones and the most appropriate for beginners are made of rubber. The most hygienic and most comfortable are from silicon. Unlike the rubber ones, they are also easier to clean. Rubber is a substance that cannot be a 100% disinfected, but silicon can. There are also vibrating anal beads and spherical "anal dildos".



rubber beads - appropriate for beginners


How do they work?

You put the beads into the anus one at a time. You can use them alone, men and women alike. Mostly, they are used by heterosexual couples during vaginal intercourse. Just before a woman has an orgasm, she can – or her partner can – gradually remove the beads from her anus. The beads are shaped so that 5 to 10 of them follow one another in size, from the smallest to the largest. This is very important because the anus can slowly adjust to larger objects. It is also practical when you take them out – then, it is desirable if the first bead is bigger because there is greater stimulation and the orgasm is more intense. While some people swear by slow insertion and extraction of the beads, some prefer taking the beads quickly out all at once just before the orgasm. Some even suggest using vaginal and anal beads simultaneously.



"spherical" anal dildo


How do we use them:

Always bear three important things in mind: communication, lubrication and relaxation!

But before you start playing, try if the string is strong (if the beads are on a string), you do not wish to leave one in the anus by accident. Also check the surface of the beads. It should be smooth. Any sharp pieces could damage the inside of the anus.




silicon beads


Communication is important

If you use the beads alone or with your partner, follow the language of your bodies. If you play together, do not forget to ask in between if she needs more lubricant, or if she wants some other part of her body stimulated, or if she is ready to have another bead inserted, or if it is time to pull them out.


Lubricant

It is very important to use a lot of lubricant. The most desired lubricants are water-based.


Be really aroused

Before pushing the beads into the anus, the person must be totally relaxed. Penetrating the anus when the contracting muscle is not relaxed can be unpleasant and painful, which is not the point of this accessory.


You are in no rush

Take your time inserting the first bead.  When you put it in, wait and let the body adjust to the feeling. Put the other beads in one at a time as well. This will enhance the senses. Stop when you require more lubricant. There is no hurry, so do not rush with inserting the whole string of beads into the anus. The accessory can also provide satisfactory results if not all the beads are inside the anal opening.


Breathe deeply

Even though you might be losing your mind from the pleasure, do not hold your breath. Breathing deeply is very important for pleasure during intercourse. Especially concerning anal intercourse because your body is filling up with oxygen, which helps your muscles relax even more.


Pull them out carefully

When you take them out, it is best to do it in a straight line and not tilt them up or down, left or right. Fight the urge to pull them out wildly and quickly, but instead respect your/her body and pull them out gently and slowly.

 


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